Loving Female Led Relationships

Relationships that Empower Women

FLR Matchmaking Service

Lifetime Access to our FLR Dating Roster

1 Guaranteed Match With Someone Who Wants a FLR as Much as You Do

Access to our FLR Education Classes

Access our FLR Education Courses

The Loving FLR Academy, our online school, hosts the Matchmaking Service Online Coaching Program where clients can access the 4 Loving FLR lessons needed to complete the Matchmaking Service Coaching Program, at any time, day or night. The Matchmaking Service Love Lessons are included in the price of the registration. The student is automatically enrolled and given access to the course.

The 4 Lessons are presented as video presentations and reading assignments. After reviewing each lesson, students are asked to complete and submit a written test based on the lesson. The student can move through the entire program at their own pace as long as they complete all of the lessons and tests before a 4 week deadline.

1 on 1 Private Interview


At the midway point of the 4 Week Coaching Program, the student will be prompted to book a 15 minute Face to Face Interview with Te-Erika Patterson, the author of She Wants: A Loving Female Led RelationshipHow to Love a Powerful Woman and A Manifesto for a Female Led Society.  

The discussion will cover their progress in the course and goals and desires for a Loving FLR. This is a web based live video interview conducted through a private web conference room. You will be required to use video on this day. This interview will not be recorded.

The FLR Matchmaking Process

The FLR Matchmaker

After the successful completion of the 4 Week Matchmaking Service Coaching Program, clients will be automatically enrolled in the Premium Matchmaking Program. Each candidate will receive 1 match during the first month of the program.

Each match is personally vetted and selected by the Loving FLR Matchmaker. Geography, interests and personality traits are all factors that are considered based on information gleaned from dating profiles each participant must submit.

The FLR Matchmaker will arrange a date with the matches to meet through a private online meeting room. This meeting will not be recorded.

After the introduction meeting both participants will be invited to complete a friendly recap questionnaire about their interaction. These recap questionnaires are private and will never be publicly posted or shared with anyone, not even the participants. 

These evaluations are not to be seen as judgments, but as healthy feedback for pursuing future dating options and will allow the Loving FLR Matchmaker to make more accurate matches in the future. At the end of the recap questionnaire, participants may opt to meet again or rematch.

One Registration Fee for Lifetime Access

Your registration fee allows access to the FLR Matchmaking Services. You can relax while we do the work of searching for more suitable matches, according to your preferences. We will reach out to you if we believe we have a good match for you so you won’t have to waste time and energy wading through potential matches. The fee for additional matches is listed under MATCH ME in the payment options tab. DO NOT select the MATCH ME option until after you have registered for the program.

ALL Premium Members must be willing to participate in long distance dating and must be willing to travel to date at their own expense, if they meet someone they are interested in.

Federal Background Checks are required for all candidates enrolled in the Matchmaking Program. No violent or sexual offenders allowed. Background check fees are included in the service fee. No additional charges will be applied.

Failure to successfully complete the required assignments during the Loving FLR Coaching Programs, demonstrating aggressive behavior or not honoring commitments may result in immediate dismissal. There are no refunds at any time for any reason. Dismissal is at the discretion of the Matchmaker and may not be contested.


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Frequently Asked Questions

Loving Female Led Relationships are relationships that empower women. He willingly agrees to ensure that she is happy and supported in her goals. She leads the relationship by expressing what she wants and he agrees to listen and respect her wishes.  There is no competition in Loving Female Led Relationships, she always wins. He is satisfied by watching her win. 

A Loving FLR does not ignore the man’s needs. As he focuses on her happiness, she ensures the well-being of the relationship. A woman in a Loving FLR is not superior to the man; they work together as a team to achieve her vision for the relationship. A Loving FLR is not a gender role reversal. Some women prefer to play traditionally feminine roles while others do not. We encourage each couple to create the relationship that suits them because there is no playbook. The only standard expectation is that her happiness is the priority and he enjoys doing everything he can to ensure it.

We encourage single women in leadership positions to join our FLR Matchmaking Service so that they can be introduced to men who will support their leadership and not compete with them. Men who join our FLR Matchmaking Service are only attracted to Powerful Women and want nothing more than to be with a woman who knows what she wants and will not settle for less.

We only accept women who have leadership roles in their communities, businesses or organizations. We only accept men of EXCELLENCE with thriving careers, who are self motivated, extremely intelligent and are always gentle with women. All men must demonstrate that they will be an asset to a woman’s life. Sadistic or aggressive men and women are not welcome. Men and women who need help with basic life maintenance should not apply. 

The Better Business Bureau noted that the average cost per person to use a matchmaking service is $5,000 — and some people spend as much as $10,000. The FLR Matchmaking Service is the only one of its kind. It is designed for people who want a caring professional dedicated to introducing them to matches who want the exact relationship that they have been craving. If the desire is strong enough, the price is worth it. 

No. All participants must be coached in the art of creating a successful Loving FLR.

If you are not a good match for your first match, you may ask to be introduced to another match for the MATCH ME fee listed on the payment options tab. You may be introduced to as many matches as you like, WHEN you want one or when someone joins the program who suits your profile, we will contact you. There are no automatic fees. DO NOT select the MATCH ME option until after you register for the FLR Matchmaking Program because there are no refunds once your payment is submitted. The MATCH ME option is for additional matches, not your first match.

No. If your question has not been answered on this page, use the EMAIL US tab at the bottom of the screen to list your questions in one email and you will receive a response within 24 hours. Unfortunately, due to the high number of emails received, I will be unable to correspond back and forth so be sure to include all of your questions in one email.

If you are honest and polite, it should not be difficult. Your match will only see portions of the recap that we deem important and useful to know. Everyone benefits when they look at the recap questionnaire as offering loving feedback to a friend.

No. You will be matched with 1 (one) person seeking a Loving FLR during your first month in the program. After the month has ended you may choose to continue in the program and receive more matches for an additional fee. Charges will not automatically be deducted.

People who enroll in the Loving FLR Matchmaking Service are a part of the Loving FLR Community, are subscribed to our blog or have participated in our Loving FLR Coaching Programs. When you clarify what you are looking for, we go through our roster to find the perfect matches for you and we also reach out to general community members and our readers and subscribers to find more potential matches based on location and interest. There is no end to lengths we will go to in order to find a great match for you.

Friendship and love have no boundaries. We will do our best to match you with someone near you but there may be a time when that is impossible. In this case we ask that you be open to meeting and making a new friend despite the distance. All relationships built around friendships can become much more if you release your demands and allow it.

There are no guarantees that you will find a love match in our program. You are registering for access to our services and we will do our best to create as many success stories as we can. Luckily we already know that you will have at least one thing in common- You BOTH want a Loving FLR. That takes a lot of the pain away from traditional dating.

This is a web based live video interview. You will be interviewing with Te-Erika, the Publisher of LovingFLR.Com. Please come dressed and ready for an official interview. Please dress appropriately in a nice outfit and ensure that your video camera is turned on and your microphone works. We will discuss the lessons presented, you will be quizzed on some of the most important points in the lectures and you will be asked to describe your ideal partner. This is not a test. This is your time to share what you are truly looking for in  a partner so that we can find the best matches for you.

No. There is no group component to this program.

You will be removed from the Loving FLR Matchmaking Program for failure to communicate and respond to the Matchmaker when she reaches out to you, disrespectful or aggressive behavior or communication towards anyone involved in the program, demonstrating that you lack simple life maintenance skills or failure to honor commitments. You will be automatically disqualified from the Loving FLR Matchmaking Program if your background check has violent or sexual criminal offenses.

During the Coaching portion of the Loving FLR Matchmaking Program you will have to submit written tests after viewing each lesson. You have 4 weeks to complete all 4 Lessons. Since the lessons are presented online you may access them at any time. You may complete all of the lessons in one day if you wish, but you will still need to wait until the complete 4 weeks have passed before you will meet your first match.

The lessons in the Coaching portion are designed to signify that you understand the principles behind a Loving FLR so that I can vouch for you when connecting you with matches. Each lesson is a video presentation that lasts on average 10 minutes.

There is a 4 week time limit to complete your Matchmaking Online Class. The next week your Cyberdate should be arranged. You cannot postpone your first match. If you do not agree to meet with your first match within 6 weeks of registering for the program you forfeit the match. You may opt to meet someone for an additional fee. We start arranging your first date as soon as you turn in your first assignment and it is not respectful to make your date wait for you for an extended time.

No. Most women in this service want supportive partners without the kink aspect. 

There are all kinds of people on the Matchmaking roster. There are those who are not interested in Kink and BDSM and some who thrive in those relationships. There will be someone suitable for you for sure, just let us know your preferences and we will find them. 

We will not share any photos or identifying information except for occupation, age and location before the cyber dates are scheduled. That’s what makes it exciting! One thing you WILL know is that this person wants a Loving FLR very much. This program is for people who like meeting new people who are supporters of the empowerment of women!

We use a platform called ZOOM to schedule our CyberDates. Your meeting will never be recorded and the person you are matched with will not know any information about you, besides your name, unless you offer it. If you are hesitant about the privacy of your meeting, you can always reach out to ZOOM and ask them about their policies for recording meetings or storing your information.

Yes. You can join the FLR Dating Roster. You will be among those contacted FIRST when a new PREMIUM member joins the FLR Matchmaking Service. Joining the FLR Dating Roster does not guarantee a match, it simply confirms that you are available if a PREMIUM member is interested in someone like you. You will ONLY be contacted if a PREMIUM member may be interested in you. There are no guarantees that you will be matched. When you join the FLR Dating Roster, you are submitting your name to be included on our list of possible matches for our Premium Members. Please select FLR Dating Roster at checkout. If you want us to find multiple matches specific to your desires, please join the PREMIUM FLR Matchmaking Service.


FLR Matchmaking Service


The Loving FLR Matchmaking Service includes an Online Coaching Program, Face to Face Interview and 1 guaranteed match upon successful completion of the coaching program.

You have 4 weeks to complete the program which consists of 4 Lessons in our Online Academy. Your 4 weeks begin when you register for the program.




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